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8 Ways To Avoid Cheating In a Relationship



Cheating in relationships has become rampant and a norm in the world we live in today. We can assume most partners will cheat at some point in a committed relationship. Cheating is now and again a reason for divorce and at different occasions as a side effect of a debilitated relationship.

How do you stop yourself from cheating on your partner in a relationship? On the off chance that you truly love your partner, you should do nothing that will make them extremely upset and ruin your relationship with them. Furthermore, regardless of whether you don’t actually adore your spouse, as long as you’re involved with them, you don’t have any right to cheat on them and cause somebody a wrecked heart.

Whatever sort of relationship you have, you should undoubtedly fulfill your promise of loyalty and faithfulness to your partner. Below are 8 ways you can avoid cheating in a relationship.

Work towards a great relationship

The best defense against cheating is a great relationship. When our needs are met physically and emotionally, we don’t have as much interest to look elsewhere. Examine how well you meet your partner’s wants and needs, and how well they meet yours. Make sure to step it up in areas that are weak, and to communicate honestly about what you need to feel fulfilled and fully happy.

Grow together

Do things together that challenge you to grow together. We all change as we age. It’s not enough to put our partnerships on cruise control and expect them to last. How are you going to keep up with your partner’s changing thoughts, preferences, ideas and desires? How do they keep up with yours? Read books together, attend seminars, or find a good online relationship education program to keep your partnership on the cutting edge of moving forward so you are continually discovering one another.

Stop cheating right from your eyes

The eye is the lamp of the body and the window to your soul. Do not let cheating enter into your eyes and then corrupt your mind, heart, and soul later. In other words, if you already have a wife or a girlfriend, don’t stare maliciously at other women, whether they are in a magazine, on television, on the Internet, or right in front of you.

Learn self-control

Develop self-discipline in your life as a whole. Learn how to control yourself to avoid drunkenness, gluttony, laziness, and other bad practices no matter how serious or not they are. If you can’t even control yourself to avoid a bottle of beer or a single stick of cigarette, then how much more the urge to cheat on your partner which is a more powerful temptation?

Surround yourself with people who will help you avoid cheating

Instead of spending time with people who might bring you to temptation, enjoy time with your family and trusted friends who will keep you away from them. Don’t go alone when you are meeting someone, especially if they pose a threat. If your partner is not available, let your best friend or sibling accompany you to make sure you will not fall into temptation

Know that you will gain nothing from cheating

Have a clear view of the future. Realize that you will never gain anything from cheating but a short-term pleasure. Your partner’s heart will be broken. Your children will suffer. Your family will be ruined. Your dignity will be destroyed. You will definitely lose from such action.

Realize that there are still many people who don’t cheat

If you think it’s just okay or normal to cheat because a lot of people do it nowadays, you’ve got it wrong. It’s never okay to cheat and break your partner’s heart. Committing adultery is not also normal – it could even land you in jail. Be aware that there are still many people who are faithful and loyal to their own partner. And they don’t even brag it on the Internet or social media.

Genuinely Love your partner

Finally, the best solution to prevent or stop yourself from cheating is to truly love your partner. True love is loving without expecting love in return. It also transforms you into a better person who is kind, patient, trustworthy, humble, truthful, respectful, and faithful so you will never ever cheat and hurt your partner. Moreover, if you really love your partner, you will bring him or her closer to God.

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Makeup Mistakes You Should Avoid At All Cost





We all have our makeup routine that we feel we’ll never stray away from. But what if your everyday routine is actually full of beauty blunders? Have no fear: we’re here to help! We took some time to write down the biggest makeup mistakes we’ve discovered over the years and explain why they may be throwing a wrench in your routine.
Here are our top 5 common makeup mistakes, and of course, how to avoid them.

I’ve been that woman. The one who watched one too many Youtube tutorials, scoffed at how evidently easy smoky eyes are to create and proceeded to resemble a sleep-deprived panda by the end of it. The thing about makeup is, a pro can make the trickiest of looks seem virtually effortless to pull off, but when the brush is actually in your hand, the real truth emerges. Which is, perfecting your makeup skills demands patience, practice and a whole lot of experience.

Applying Before Moisturizing

Dry skin is makeup’s worst enemy. Applying makeup directly to dry skin can cause flakiness, which makes it difficult to blend the product into the skin. Before applying any makeup, make sure your face is freshly cleansed and moisturized. A moisturizer that can double down as a primer is the best choice. To remedy your dry skin long term, make sure to exfoliate weekly!

Wrong Shade of Foundation

It’s a makeup mistake everyone has made at some point. Wearing the wrong shade of foundation will automatically give away that you are wearing makeup because your face won’t match the rest of your skin. When choosing a foundation, make sure to shade match by testing on your face rather than your arm for the most accurate results. It doesn’t hurt to buy two colors that seem close to your skin tone, and either choose the shade that looks best in natural daylight or keep both to mix-and-match as your skin-tone fluctuates throughout the seasons.

Using A Foundation Way Lighter Than Your Skin Tone

Using the wrong shade of foundation is one of the biggest makeup blunders frequently committed, one that makes your face look like it doesn’t belong to the rest of your body. Especially for Indian skin tones, a super-light foundation will make your face look ashy, and off-colour, leaving a grey cast on your makeup. An ill-suited foundation shade is also a huge barrier to a natural makeup appearance that we mostly tend to aim for as a work-appropriate look, and can also make your face seem way too over-done, despite your makeup intentions being the polar opposite.

Skipping Out On The Neck Entirely 

Yes, the purpose of make-up is to enhance your face, but a common makeup mistake is sticking to just that part and avoiding makeup application on the neck entirely. Your neck is the second most exposed part of your body after your face and also the one closest to it, and not matching the foundation base on your face with your neck can cause your face to look detached from what’s under the chin. It can also make your neck look like it’s older than your face, which is unsettling to just think of. Instead, apply the same coat of foundation, and blend appropriately.

Not Cleaning Your Makeup Brushes For Ages 

Ladies, this is one of those makeup mistakes to avoid, that all of us have projected ourselves to at some point, before knowing better. Dirty makeup brushes can pave the way for a number of skin problems, and transfer dirt and bacteria onto your makeup products than to your face, and then back again to the product. Even if you make it a point to thoroughly clean your face before you apply your makeup, the accumulation of bacteria and germs on an unwashed makeup brush will lead to acne, breakouts and in some extreme cases, even viral illnesses. This is especially true in the case of a beauty blender used to apply foundation and other creamy makeup products since bacteria tend to thrive in moist environments. Make it a point to deep clean all your makeup brushes and tools every 7-10 days, and rinse your beauty blender after each use.

Applying heavy mascara on bottom lashes

When you swipe your mascara wand, do you give the same TLC to the top lashes as you do the bottom? If so, take it easier on the lower set, since Taylor says a heavy application will bring everyone’s attention to the wrinkles below your eyes. “Using mascara to accentuate the edges of the eyes can give your gaze extra expressiveness,” she says. “But no matter how small those wrinkles are, thick mascara will make them stand out. Just slightly add one coat to stay safe.”

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Vanessa Mdee’s Baby Shower Was All Shades of Amazing




Tanzanian singer and songwriter, Vanessa Mdee is really rocking the pregnancy glow and we can’t stop drooling.

From the big announcement to her millions of followers, Vanessa Mdee is slowing serving us goals!

The singer had her baby shower recently and it was nothing short of amazing. Vanessa’s fiancé Rotimi, a Nigerian-American actor and singer, family members and close friends were present to celebrate the special day with her.

Fun, laughter and good vibes are all we can see. The pictures say it all, take a look!


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Kemi Adetiba Is The Cover Star For Genevieve Magazine’s Latest Issue




Film maker Kemi Adetiba is the cover star for Genevieve Magazine’s latest issue. Kemi talks about her journey into making her Netflix original series “King Of Boys: Return Of The King.” She also spoke about how she and the entire crew did a great job in making the film a reality.

Nollywood star Jim Iyke was also featured in this issue. He spoke about his 20-year journey in the industry, tracking down trolls, giving himself space to grieve and more. Alongside, Anita Asuoha (Real Warri Pikin) who talks about her journey to healing, fans without boundaries and finding joy in giving joy!

Read the full article below

Photography – @kolaoshalusi
Direction/Styling – @sonia_irabor
MakeUp – @makeupbyadebukola
Hair – @abbeycrystalsignature
Cover Outfit – “Theatre” Two-Piece Top – @ladybeellionaire_luxury | Trousers – @atafo.official

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